stereotyping at its best…..

I am having a hard time figuring out is this article more offensive to men, ( due to authors built -in ideas about the male gender) , or towards women… since the author automatically implies that , for some reason, “normal” women are not good lovers, or not willing to try out things that, according to the author , “crazy” women are.

Just look at the “there are girls you fuck and the girls you marry”…. idea… I have seen the sentiment repeated all over all sorts of women's forums and “advice” columns… The ones that say that there are guys that can give you orgasms, and then there are “the providers”…

The mistake is the mirroring of the same sentiment with men… Which doesn't really stand…

Not to brag, but I had a few sex partners when I was younger.. and guess what… probably the best sex I ever had ( or keep having) is with the woman I married…and I know a whole lot of people who share my sentiment.

I suppose the entire thing has to do with authors own experiences ( or lack of them) — but, the thing is, despite of what some women would like to think, most men do not fall into these idiotic molds…

According to the logic used by the author, I am supposed to deduce that she is either completely crazy, or horrible in bed… but I know better than to stick an entire gender into a couple of limited categories…

Yet, I suppose, thinking like this makes it much easier for a person to deal with their own failures in inter-human relationships… IF she is sane, then the fact that men do not like her must have to do with something like “guys like crazy women” … instead of “It is my personality which makes guys stay away from me”….

It is just like the women who keep saying that “there are no decent men out there”… but when you talk o them you see that the only men they talk to are complete idiots … so, they choose to date A-holes, and then they blame an entire gender on their bad decisions…