It might be nature, it might be nurture… but ( at least in my experience) the idea that , when it comes to what turns us on, men are more visual while women tend to be more tactile , does seem to function in practice.

As for porn…. I think it is all BS.. I know a few women who do watch porn ( at least on occasions) and I never heard any of them saying anything along the lines of “That scene should have been filmed differently so that more woman would be turned on by it”… Meaning, they either watch it or they don’t- and, overall, much less women are interested in porn than men ( When it comes to Erotica, things change… but that is another issue) . And that is the point- you can not really do much in order to produce porn that will be attractive to more women since women are not that interested in porn. Full stop

now- Body parts…. I dunno… but do not give up yet — there are a whole bunch of people out there who do seem to be turned on by old, wrinkly parts of both sexes :)