In my experience … Just as with anything else in this life of ours, it is all completely personal and individual. One woman might be waking up the neighborhood when she has sex, another one might have 10 orgasms in a row and not make a sound ( OK — it doesn't happen too often, but it does)

Thing is… by trying to understand things which are utterly personal , through generalizations, we simply miss too many things. A shitload of people ( both men and women) in the past few decades have done a whole lot to damage the male-female relations by attempting to explain ( or understand) things about sex by looking at other people, what they do, how they do it… what sounds they make…

Well, despite what we ( as humans) would like to think about the opposite gender, whatever we learned, or know, about one person, will not apply to another … And the ONLY way we can build normal relations with each-other is to stop looking through the gender filter and start concentrating on the person we are with , without pre-created notions or “truths” that, in our heads, apply to an entire gender… They don’t.