Although I agree that there should be no stigma around the matter- I also do not believe that we should generalize…. What works for one person might not work for another- and ( despite what a lot of people might like to believe), when it comes to relationships, there is no recipe or a set of rules which will be applicable to everyone …

when I was younger ( or should I say during my running around years) , most of the women I dated , for some reason, happened to be older than me- sometimes by no more than a couple of months, sometimes being twice my age ( literary… when I was 17 I had a 3 month “relationship” with a 34 year old woman — she did teach me a lot :)) ) — Weirdly, at the time, I never thought about it along these lines. The act that most of them were older struck me later on, during a conversation with a couple of friends.

Yet, despite this, the woman I married happens to be more than a decade younger…and just like the fact that the age was not what mattered while I was dating — the fact that she is much younger also had nothing to do with the fact that we ended up together. It was about running into the one person you know you wanna be with

There are so many more important things to deal with when we choose our partners — and age is definitely not one of them….

do not choose your partners according to their age, religion, finances.. whatever it is that people do — — just, listen to what your heart has to say and you will be alright… but, if you start developing “formulas” for finding/choosing your partners, you will always end up unsatisfied, and unhappy